I heart Tony

the problem begins and ends with this: looks are deceiving. you may see someone and be all hubba hubba. and then they burn you.
next one rolls around and youre all mama mia. and that one burns you too.
so you think, ah, i need to look at other factors before i do the thing that will make me vulnerable. and when that works out you forget the red herring, you only aim at the shiny thing Inside.
until you meet the one who was all, um i worked HARD on this outter shell. LOVE THE SHELL!
but its too late because you have already exposed yrself as a Deeper. as in one who looks inside before paying much attention to the outside.
and there you are, alone, again.
xcept for your values.