ruby tuesday

here's a hypothetical question: if you like a boy, and you 'hang out' with him one evening, should you call him? if so, when? after two days? after three days? you know, cause i have um a friend.. who's curious... ya that's it. a friend.

mike b's "boy" advice is that boys like to be called so you should do it, but there are rules.

• you have to call to talk or to make plans (this one makes no sense to me, so i've asked for further clarification. -- will follow up
  
• if you have to leave voicemail, keep it brief
  
• call three times without a return phonecall before giving up.
  

ooo this just in: "sorry that part didn't make much sense did it. I guess don't call to be all drippy ooo you're cool I like you stuff. but then I don't think you would anyway". I'm glad he added in that last bit. glad he realizes that i'm not a fuzzy bunny kind of girl. not that there's anything wrong with that...

so maybe this evening i'll give him a call. then again, maybe i'll chicken out. man, i'm bad at this. relationships have always kind of just fallen into my lap. i don't usually have to do anything for them. mind you, this isn't actually doing anything. this is a phone call. simmer down, sundae.